A friend of mine shared an article on facebook that said signs you’re just not meant to be together, and I read it so I can contradict everything and to prove that we- my boyfriend and I, are meant to be. (Hahaha!)
1. You have different approaches to fighting.
I’m not going to be a hypocrite and say that we don’t fight, or don’t argue at all, for that matter. We DO fight. We get each other angry. When we’re together and we fight, we both raise our voice. (You know that kind of fighting where you’re shouting and whispering at the same time? Like when you’re afraid someone will hear you?) It’s just two things. We yell or we both shut up. I tried walking out a couple of times but it just pisses him off. When we fight via text/chat, I use caps lock- he keeps his cool. But once I push him too hard, he’ll be straightforward- not sugar coating anything. Literally anything. But no ugly words though. There can be a lot of cursing at time but not to each other. Just because of the situation. We’re both always be willing to make up anyways. It’s just that guys really can’t lower their pride sometimes. (Don’t tell him I said that :p)
2. You’re too different (or similar)
We share a lot of interests, but we’re not exactly similar. We both love sports, but we don’t exactly listen to the same kind of music. We both love laughing and sharing about things we see on the web, but we don’t read the same books. He eats olives, I don’t. (Yep, Lily & Marshall’s olive theory) We both love annoying people, though. Haha! Any how, we have a lot of differences and similarities and I think that’s how you keep things interesting.
3. There’s never anything to talk about
We’ve known each other for 5 years and we’ve been dating for almost four and I won’t lie. Sometimes there’s just nothing to talk about. I remember a scene from HIMYM, where Ted mentioned that if you and your significant other known all of your stories- you’re basically an old married couple. Well we aren’t exactly there yet, but I think we’re getting close. You never really run out of stories to tell, you know? I mean, we live 24 hours a day and inside that 24 hours you should at least have ONE interesting story to tell someone at the end of everyday. But sometimes it’s nice to just be together in silence. We don’t do it much though. We like making fun of other couples (hehe bad!) we don’t talk to each other 24/7 though so it doesn’t happen often :)
4. You really dislike the other person’s interest
As I mentioned a while ago, we share a lot of interests but we have a lot of different interests too. I don’t dislike his interest, I have a neutral feeling about it. I do think it’s the other way around though, he just always teases me about some of the things I find interesting. (Because I’m a hopeless romantic and kind of a nerd in one way) hahaha
5. He/ she doesn’t take your profession seriously
We’re both in the field of media & art, so I guess there’s no argument in this one.
6. He/she talks down to you.
I don’t think he ever did, and for the record if he EVER did, it was because of too much anger and loss of self control. I know for a fact that he would never talk down on me on purpose.
First term’s almost over, and I can’t help but think, “I’ve been excited all my senior life for this shit?????” Hahaha! If it was up to me, I’d stay in high school forever. Just me, my friends, my old school and Lourde… Ahhhhhh. I wish. The experience and the new people I met are amazing, though. People that have the same passion like me. Although some, I heard, is going to transfer schools and shift courses… Which is just sad. Haha. It’s going to be our finals the week after next. Wish me luck!!
Bus rides from home to school and from school to home are always long and boring. Sometimes I feel like I spend too much time in the bus, specially when it’s traffic and the bus is fully packed with sweaty people. It gets a little easier and convenient though when I get to see and sit with a couple of my highschool friends/batchmates. But the best bus rides is when I’m with him. After a long, boring and tiring day, it’s really the highlight of my day when we get to go home together. We talk, ask how each other’s day is, discuss about current problems, take a look at 9gag(lol yes), and even just the not awkward silence. It’s nice that we can be together for 24 hours and not have an awkward interaction/silence anymore because we’re already confortable with each other. That’s why bus rides with him are the best. The way he squishes me softly when he wants to get closer, the way he unconsciously falls asleep on my shoulders, and when he kisses my shoulders everytime he wakes up from his nap. I feel like I’m safe, and I’m where I want to be, even if I hate commuting. Sabi ko nga sakanya dati, “ang gaan ng buhay pag kasama ka.” Because that’s really how I feel when I’m with him. I’m usually strong, the kind that doesn’t need help from anyone because I can handle myself. But it’s nice to be treated like a princess every once in a while. It’s sucks because everytime I’m with him I never want to get off the bus, but it always seems like it’s the shortest bus ride ever. Oh well, I guess time really flies when you’re happy.
Char nang title. Haha! Anyways, nung bata pa ko pag tinatanong ako kung anong gusto kong maging paglaki ko, ang lagi kong sinasabi nurse. Pero nung lumaki na ko, mga highschool ang gusto ko nang itake sa college is psychology. I don’t know why.. Basta. Gusto ko daw yun. Hahhahaa. Pero nung pumunta ko ng Dubai, tapos nakita ko yung trabaho ng mama ko. And I liked it. I realized that’s what I wanted to do in the future. Hindi nakapagtapos ng college si mama. Kasi.. Nabuntis siya kaagad sakin. Sinwerte lang din siya sa Dubai kaya nakahanap ng magandang trabaho. Haha, so yun.. Mula 3rd year hanggang ngayong nakagraduate na ko ayun parin gusto ko. Gusto ko sa media. I want to be a director/writer/journalist someday. And I know I will be one of those.. (Or all of those i wish hahaha!) I do know what I’m capable of and I know what things I’m good at kaya yun rin yung kinuha kong program. Mga pinag pilian ko is mma, comm arts, and masscomm. Kaya excited na rin talaga ako magcollege. Sana lang kayanin ko.. Oh well. Haha.
Hahahhahahahhaha move on my ass u slut hahaha
Tagal naring hindi nakapag blog, ang boring pa ng buhay ko ngayon eh. 😂 excited na kong magcollege. (And im going to take that back in a month haha!) magkalapit lang kami ni Lourde. Sa likod lang niya ako. Haha sa St. scho ako, sa benilde siya. Mass comm ako, mma siya. Haha. May pasok na agad siya sa may 19. Tapos birthday ko sa 21. Sana maaga uwi niya nang maka-cheppy. Hahahahhaa. I don’t know what else to say.. But as of today I’m happy. Wala nang nanggugulo samin. May mga naninira, pero di naman maiiwasan yun. Can’t please everybody, can we? Napadpad ako sa ask box ko at nakita ko ulit lahat ng hate messages dati, lahat ng mga anon sakin. And now I’m definitely sure kung sino yun. No matter how much niyang ideny. :) sa pagkakakilala ko sa sarili ko, marunong akong bumasa ng tao. Kaya I can tell if you’re lying. Oh well. Natatawa nalang ako ngayon. Lalo na dun sa ask na, hanggang throw back nalang daw ako sa mga pictures namin ni lourde. hahahaha! Ano ka ngayon? =)) hahaha! I pity you, until now. Anyways, yun lang naman. Hi ho. Bye!!